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Contradiction? Confusion? Denial? or What?

I feel my last notation added to the end of the conclusion of series of posts about brother’s cancer may need some clarification. To some it may seem like contradiction that I can feel so strongly that my brother has … Continue reading

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New Old Diagnosis – Conclusion

One example from Bible that supports this view would be story of David’s first child by Bathsheba conceived in sin. Even though David acknowledged his sin publicly and repented after he was confronted by Samuel, even though he prayed that God … Continue reading

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New Old Diagnosis

(delayed publishing -“Today” was a few days ago) Today we learn from oldest brother that he has cancer…..again. It is his 5th time he has had to battle cancer. Each time before he has endured treatments including some that were … Continue reading

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Perpetrators : Some Does and Don’ts

It’s been a while since I have posted anything, even though I have been out occasionally in the past few weeks. I want to continue along the line of thought that Plex has been writing about, with some  does and … Continue reading

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Perpetrators: How do they know?

There were times when I was early in recovery from codependency that I asked the question in therapy groups, “Do I have some kind of invisible neon sign over my head that only perpetrators can see that says, ‘easy target’ … Continue reading

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Perpetrators – Yet Another Unexpected Twist

For those who have lived in abusive relationships, the illogical yet very real set of dynamics that we have already discussed between perpetrators and victims may be familiar to you – even predictable despite how illogical they are. However, people … Continue reading

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Perpetrators – It doesn’t make sense part 1

written by Plex We think of perpetrators as people who have a strong dislike for their victims. At a minimum you would think they didn’t care about them. However, that isn’t necessarily true. All too often a perpetrator is a … Continue reading

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Perpetrator defined

written by Plex According to Webster’s dictionary, “Perpetrate” is defined as “to do or perform something evil, criminal,or offensive; to be guilty of; to commit a blunder, impose a hoax” A more generally accepted definition is anyone who intentionally or … Continue reading

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